A Good Father Always Wants His Daughter to Make Her Mark in the World
I love that sound that just happened – the sound of a chair being moved in the kitchen. It is getting moved so that my wife can reach the ceramic pot on the top shelf of the cabinet for a special dish we will share with my family tonight. That sound says to me, “you’re home.” That sound makes me stop my concentration and think of the comfort of home and my beautiful wife. . . our life together. The next image in the background that it draws in, is family. I am blessed to have a multi-generational family here and it helps to anchor my history through family bonds and stories passed from parent or grandparent to child – and sometimes the grandparent’s child. (You are never too old to learn).
I sometimes wonder what explorers millenia from now will think if they come across remnants of me and my family and our life here. In a way I hope they will be kind of like us here trying to look back at others to figure out, not their world, but who they were as people.
As I look at the past there is one family I think about. I have no idea what their names would be. And no idea what language they spoke. I can’t tell you much about them individually, either. Well with the exception of one little girl – I don’t know if she had other brothers and sisters or not – and her father. She is about 5 and he, well I am guessing here, but I like to imagine him to be about my age. Maybe a little younger.
I know that technologies were changing all around them. Women were helping to change society. Fashions were changing. And people were reveling in the arts.
In my mind the father and the daughter somehow communicate and I cannot quite hear his words but I see him as a great storyteller and able to excite her sense of adventure. And as I said, I don’t know much about her but she reminds me of a girl I once knew so I am calling her, “Claire.”
What I know about Claire’s family is from the art they left behind.
Claire was a five year-old girl who lived in France in the Rouffignac cave system about 328 miles south of Paris and slightly to the west.. She lived in what we call “The Latest Stone Age” or the Upper Paleolithic era. That was somewhere between 50,000 to 10,000 years ago and we know that Claire and her family were there about 13,000 years ago. It was a long time ago and we can’t really narrow it down to exactly when then like we can today. There were no “months” or even”years.” It was “eras” back then. It was a time when new tools, more complex ones, were being figured out and women were learning to weave cloth. Great migrations of humans spread from Asia through Europe. (The Neanderthals had disappeared somewhere around 33,000). And it was a time just before the widespread practice of agriculture.
Females have their index (second) and ring (fourth) fingers about equal in length. Males have a longer ring finger than the index finger. And width can tell you a child’s age. Leslie Van Gelder is an archeologist who has studied the finger flutings of the cave. “Finger Flutings” are marks left by people who repeatedly dragged their fingers over the limestone ceilings of the caves. She figured out that the finger flutings in one area of the cave system were made by about eight to ten people. Four were children and out of them there was a five year old girl whose artwork covered more area than anyone else. Her work is on ceilings that are about 45 minutes from the main area and in an area where they would have had to go through bear dens and cramped passages before entering the area of relatively high ceilings, higher than she could have reached by herself.
Claire’s father enticed her to travel deep into a cave and then held her up as a small flame lit the ceiling and he helped her create the art she imagined in her head. Not once but many times.
Our physical location gives us a sense of place and our family gives us a sense of being. The desire to have our own place is, dare I say it, near an instinct. And it is a comfort to know that parents encouraging their children, helping them grow, and helping them become creative is a part of humanity – that is as old as the hills, or in Claire’s case, the caves.
John Gregory Brown, the American author, once said, “There’s something like a line of gold thread running through a man’s words when he talks to his daughter, and gradually over the years it gets to be long enough for you to pick it up in your hands and weave it into a cloth that feels like love itself.”
That is the gift I get from Claire’s father and one I want to someday be able to present to my daughter. And I hope that the millenia explorers will find my gift, my love, to my daughter, lasting as long as his has to Claire.
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